I have the same issues with an EOTech and, as others have written, reducing brightness helps. I find the single dot of a T1 or SPARC type red dot is a little less of an issue than the EaoTech dot within the circle. Reduced brightness works for those too.
OP, the EOTech reticle is a clean circle and dot when I look through a PVS 14 mounted behind it.
JPK